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I stumbled across this at the most perfect moment. Just the reminder I needed. Especially about not seeking outside advice and sitting with myself. Trusting in me and my inner guidance. Thank you!

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I am glad it resonated.

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I legit just noticed i am in an integration phase and am also no longer seeking because of readign this: "I resist the urge to research new products or seek external validation"

I've been reading more novels instead of memoirs and historical pieces which i usually mine for perspective. Thank you for helping it all make sense.

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Your mom's backyard looks like paradise! I love what you're saying. I keep telling myself this is your dream. Do it your way. Nobody else cares. Nobody is looking. Not really. Live your dream your way. It's your dream after all.

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That last sentence!

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What a fun (and truthful) read! I was really excited to see your photo from Ghana. I used to live there and often miss the smells, sounds, and music of Ghana. What a joyful experience in my life. Your post was really lovely to read and deeply resonates with me at this juncture in my life...the fullness from searching and confidence to rely on my own wisdom and intuition. Thank you for writing this. 🧡

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Ghana really stays with you once you meet her. Thank you for reading, Casey.

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You are so insightful

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I feel the same but towards spirituality and my healing journey. I feel like I learned what I needed to learn and I want to just live and breathe without constant feeling like I have an obligation to fix myself.

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Hey Jo! Thank you for reading!

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I’m definitely still in my searching phase but I’m feeling a shift lately. Maybe I’m starting to settle, I never thought about it as being full but I love that! Thank you for your words!

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Thank you for reading and sharing your perspective!

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Nicely written.

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I felt this in my toes. I literally consciously decided this morning I was going to step back from the scrolling because I've seen enough. I wasn't sure what to call this next phase but "integration" is beautiful. Lovely words.

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I am right there with you, Ellyce.

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Really enjoyed reading this, it resonates so much with where my head is at now…

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I am so glad

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Thanks Janet for the brilliant essay, I feel very much like you ! Everyone talks about being mindful but few of us are actually mindful, present. I think that we’re more conscious of our thoughts and life when we’re focused on daily actions, daily tasks rather than perfection, doing things for the sake of doing them even if we don’t see the outcomes yet.

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I am so ready to be present consistently

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